08/3/13

Sunflowers , lemons and……emotions?

 

 

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As I was happily setting a sunny summer table …….. arranging sunflowers in a clear vase and slicing lemons,

I was thinking of emotions. Arranging sunflowers, humming a happy song and……. thinking of emotions?

 

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Seriously Emotions?  Yep emotions……………………….  sigh.

Emotions are beautiful things!!

They are a big part of what make us human and enable us to feel alive.

 

 

 

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Emotions will lead you on a wild ride if allowed to be in charge.

They keep changing, fickle as they always have been. You really can’t trust them

when making life changing choices.

 

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Emotions cause us to fall head over heels in love …… then emotions take us on a downward journey

to hate  not love the person or thing we used to love.

 

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Emotions tell us our happiness depends on a person, new car, a different home with new furnishings.

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When the new wears off, our emotions tell us those things aren’t making us happy anymore.

Then we look for a new toy,new things, new hobbies,  new relationship etc. etc. etc.

 

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The sooner the better to learn …… don’t always trust  emotions to lead us to the happy place of life.

Perhaps, I’m a slow learner …..  I admit it …. I have let my emotions be my guide and what chaos that created.

Don’t ever trust the phrase  …  “just go with your feelings” ….. at least not until you give careful consideration

…  ahem ………..…. using your head.

 

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While thoughts can lead emotions to be wild and reckless,  you can give yourself permission to not act

impulsively until you take time to weigh the matter with logical thinking.

 

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As I’m setting a sunny summer table …… arranging sunflowers in a  clear vase …… slicing lemons and oranges

I’m going to throw caution to the wind …….

 

 

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and give myself permission to go with this happy emotion.  Name cards, gingham napkins,

cheerful plates like the sun, lemons and sunflowers………  make me very happy. 

and that’s a good emotion. Smile